tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post1490804864470404951..comments2023-10-25T04:10:11.521-05:00Comments on Learning To Live: A word about my sinusesCarlahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15102582974921321651noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-37758211542650932362008-05-23T00:23:00.000-05:002008-05-23T00:23:00.000-05:00OH! HEY! It worked this time! Yaaaay!OH! HEY! It worked this time! Yaaaay!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-43580001678067521102008-05-23T00:22:00.000-05:002008-05-23T00:22:00.000-05:00ooooppps. sorry. that last anon was me. I was s...ooooppps. sorry. that last anon was me. I was so worked up I forgot to sign. I don't have a blogger or google account for various reasons, and putting in "Name" never works for me. So, I try to remember to sign my comments. This one, well, I f'ed up. Sorry, Chris!<BR/><BR/>TamiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-69354171217351636822008-05-22T23:57:00.000-05:002008-05-22T23:57:00.000-05:00Okay, seriously, how hard is it to type a "name"? ...Okay, seriously, how hard is it to type a "name"? You can put WHATEVER YOU WANT! It could be a fake name! At least then I can still tell WHO is commenting!Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07166882146358179182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-39866666514446177082008-05-22T23:56:00.001-05:002008-05-22T23:56:00.001-05:00This is Chris S. signing in using a "name".This is Chris S. signing in using a "name".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-79509115037196659412008-05-22T23:56:00.000-05:002008-05-22T23:56:00.000-05:00This is Chris S. signing in using AIM.This is Chris S. signing in using AIM.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-39197601643757177332008-05-22T22:59:00.000-05:002008-05-22T22:59:00.000-05:00To that last anonymous commenter: Thank you. I wi...To that last anonymous commenter: Thank you. <BR/><BR/>I will address the rest of this mess in my post.Carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15102582974921321651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-14808140899650594602008-05-22T22:42:00.000-05:002008-05-22T22:42:00.000-05:00Anon # 1 - Who are you to decide who needs to gr...Anon # 1 - Who are you to decide who needs to grow up? Who is to say that how YOU deal with YOUR CF is the right way. You choose to suffer in silence, you choose to suck it up, you choose to think that makes you superior. Fine. We get it. But why is another person's choice/style/need/personality<BR/>/whatever wrong?<BR/><BR/>And of course you don't feel bad saying these things. You have no empathy. Although, you aren't really saying them, are you? You are posting them without giving your name, then dropping "hints" like a middle schooler.<BR/><BR/>Anon #2 - I agree.<BR/><BR/>Anon # 1/3 Again, who made you the boss of deciding what ANYONE ELSE needs to do? I think you are confused about the difference between pity, and compassion. They are not the same, and nothing that I know about Carla suggests that she wants pity. Compassion? Yes. Understanding? Yes. Help from time to time? Yes. Pity? No.<BR/><BR/>Anon #4 - To whom, exactly, is she givig this "bad image"? To her blog readers? To the general public? Do you really think that the world's impression of "anyone with cf" will be based upon ONE person's blog? I think that people in general - especially those who have a vested interest in CF - are more accepting and knowledgeable of individual differences than you are. I wouldn't worry too much, if I were you, that your neighbor down the street or a potential employer or future spouse is going to assume that YOU are whiny and incapable of living YOUR life in a normal manner because of anything that Carla chooses to post on HER blog.<BR/><BR/><BR/>I really don't understand why it is so important to you to read and comment here. If you have Carla's "best interest at heart" then talk to her. Person to person. As a friend. If you have an axe to grind, consider it done. Move on. If it makes you feel better about yourself to bash someone else, get help. But do us all a favor and stop reading.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-46222916931170801022008-05-22T18:57:00.000-05:002008-05-22T18:57:00.000-05:00She's giving us a bad image in general. Making it ...She's giving us a bad image in general. Making it seem like anyone with CF is whiny and incapable of living their life in a happy, normal manner.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-57980711527827389742008-05-22T18:56:00.000-05:002008-05-22T18:56:00.000-05:00I deal with my emotions. It's just Carla makes it ...I deal with my emotions. It's just Carla makes it a bit harder because she didn't used to be like this, and all of a sudden she wants a pity party at every corner. It's not her. It shouldn't be her. We all deal with CF and you need to just suck it up too, Carla.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-62097638827710294592008-05-22T18:20:00.000-05:002008-05-22T18:20:00.000-05:00Dear Carla Basher,If you don't like Carla, why do ...Dear Carla Basher,<BR/>If you don't like Carla, why do you read her blog and post comments? Wouldn't it make more sense to just cut her out of your life? Damn, talk about dealing with emotions...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-14297651756519833312008-05-22T16:05:00.000-05:002008-05-22T16:05:00.000-05:00I never suggested you should kill yourself. I just...I never suggested you should kill yourself. I just said your smile proves nothing. And if you truly knew who I was, you would realize that even friends see how pitiful you are, and not only enemies. I know ENOUGH about you to back my judgments, so I don't feel bad saying them to you because you honestly do need to grow up and start dealing with your emotions better than you do. <BR/><BR/>-A former friend a.k.a. Justified Anonymous Carla Basher.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-8838216134176389462008-05-22T10:17:00.000-05:002008-05-22T10:17:00.000-05:00You should really be singing Hanson. Wouldn't tha...You should really be singing Hanson. Wouldn't that be fun, dancing through the marathon singing "MMMmmm Bop, blah blah blah dooo wop." Or perhaps even better would be New Kids on the Block.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-680598385972465292008-05-22T08:33:00.000-05:002008-05-22T08:33:00.000-05:00Yeah, well Anonymous Carla Basher did comment that...Yeah, well Anonymous Carla Basher did comment that I should kill myself, so that's where that came from.Carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15102582974921321651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8963729539410388556.post-58281030179192297082008-05-22T00:29:00.000-05:002008-05-22T00:29:00.000-05:00Ouch! A bit much...Seriously, though, you can't of...Ouch! A bit much...<BR/><BR/>Seriously, though, you can't off yourself 'cuz I would miss you.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07166882146358179182noreply@blogger.com